Love is a choice. This took along time for me to learn. We as humans tend to go on feelings. Feelings change every few minutes and they are not always certain. We can love and hate in the same breath. But for whatever reason we still go on feelings. Of course I am a newlywed and life is pretty amazing right now. We have had our up’s and down’s and more will come. But something I learned a few years ago was the true meaning of the word unconditional. Once I learned that it was a total game changer for me. Everyday we have the choice to love our spouse, love our family, love our neighbors, love our friends, love our coworkers. And some days this is really, really hard. I am not gonna lie. When we wake up on the wrong side of that bed, our clients aren’t happy, our family is whining. It’s hard to show love. But, we are called to it. Everyday. And when I choose love, I see the biggest difference all around me. It’s amazing. My husband shows love more when I do, the attitudes of those around me are more pleasant. And for me I am happier too. God is good and chooses to love me everyday in spite of me. So, I choose love today.